In this part of the world, we are conditioned to believe that guys love sex, regardless of the circumstances, which is, honestly, not a great way to think.
It reduces men to only sexual beings who don’t care about the emotional connection or their partner as long as their penis is inside a vagina. However, some guys might feel that way, but for most men, sex can be boring and it can be bad. Here are a few things that make sex really boring for guys.
1. A super shy partner
Guys don’t like it when their partner is super shy in bed. They want someone who seems like they want to have sex and who can ask for what they want. When you are really shy and not confident about your body is a big buzz kill for some guys. You don’t need to be the most confident woman in the world, but try to put away your insecurities and enjoy yourself.
2. Doing the same position all the time
It’s easy to find a position or two that you both love and to then stick with that position for a very long time. But switching things up is worth it. That’s why there are so many different options out there.
3. When there’s no foreplay
Having a quickie can be fun and exciting. If every time you hook up with the guy, you two jump right into sex, things are going to get stale fast. The element of play is important, and if there isn’t time or interest for that, then just doing it in 10 minutes, as a regular thing, seems pretty boring.
4. When it’s all you do when hanging out
There’s a common misconception out there that all guys are interested in is sex, and they don’t want to do anything else. This isn’t always true! A lot of guys want to do things like going on dates, hanging out with friends, being social and they are not always interested in just hooking up. However, making sex the only activity you two do, ever, can make it kind of boring.